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by Mianoel
Sat Dec 26, 2015 10:40 pm
Forum: Addictions
Topic: approval addiction
Replies: 23
Views: 31230

Re: approval addiction

Thank you Laura for recommending the "Recovery of your inner Child" book, and thank you Mary for feedback, and Mary and AJ for written and video feedback on subject of Monique's post.
by Mianoel
Sun Dec 13, 2015 3:39 pm
Forum: Thank You
Topic: Thank you Nicky and Perry
Replies: 1
Views: 1874

Re: Thank you Nicky and Perry

Sorry, you actually already answered at exactly min 41 of the video!
(I was only 1/2 way through video last night)

Cheers,

Mia
by Mianoel
Sun Dec 13, 2015 11:01 am
Forum: Thank You
Topic: Thank you Nicky and Perry
Replies: 1
Views: 1874

Thank you Nicky and Perry

Thank you Nicky for creating this! Thanks for the courage and inspiration. Thanks to Nicky and Perry for video! Please continue doing what you are doing! Do you have any advice on how you have dealt with condescention coming from friends and others when it comes to talking openly about passions/god/...
by Mianoel
Thu Dec 10, 2015 1:17 am
Forum: Free Will
Topic: Creating a local gift economy
Replies: 13
Views: 17820

Re: Creating a local gift economy

Thanks to all for these posts. To Anita: thanks for sharing. I resonate with what you are saying. and the emotion that I will never get any either. I am in complete denial of truth because I feel it's beyond my control if no one wants to pay for what i offer. Actually no, that IS actually true. I ju...
by Mianoel
Tue Dec 08, 2015 4:47 pm
Forum: Addictions
Topic: approval addiction
Replies: 23
Views: 31230

Re: approval addiction

Hello again,

On the second, post I wrote a few questions, but now one thing is clear:

I have preferred believing my addictions were about expectation or desire for superiority, because I would prefer anything else than having to face my terror (the real cause of my approval addiction).
by Mianoel
Tue Dec 08, 2015 4:24 pm
Forum: Fear & Terror
Topic: Worry vs fear?
Replies: 9
Views: 10442

Re: Worry vs fear?

Thank you to all (in advance),

I will be reading and re-reading as i let this gel and experiment.
I will post about any successes when i will have them,

Nicki, spot on, thanks,

all the best for now,

Mia
by Mianoel
Thu Nov 26, 2015 9:18 am
Forum: Fear & Terror
Topic: Worry vs fear?
Replies: 9
Views: 10442

Re: Worry vs fear?

Here are a few more open questions: - is worry when you try to take responsibility for things you can't (like the emotions of others), and feel we need to find a way to fix things? - is worry a true indicator that we are not taking action? (I take most action out of worry, not desire, and that doesn...
by Mianoel
Wed Nov 25, 2015 6:18 am
Forum: Fear & Terror
Topic: Worry vs fear?
Replies: 9
Views: 10442

Worry vs fear?

Hello,

What is the difference between worry and fear?

I have spent most of my life worrying, but it's a very stuck state. What are we actually doing when we worry?

Mia
by Mianoel
Sat Nov 21, 2015 10:19 pm
Forum: Addictions
Topic: approval addiction
Replies: 23
Views: 31230

Re: approval addiction

Thank you everyone for this opportunity for understanding more truth. Dear Mary, if I could ask maybe a further clarification: Why is it that I identify more with your explanation of Laura's and Monique's addictions? I always thought that I must be expecting people to do everything for me, or that I...
by Mianoel
Mon Nov 16, 2015 12:09 am
Forum: Addictions
Topic: approval addiction
Replies: 23
Views: 31230

staying in the body

Hello again, I've had some progress thanks to a tool that AJ talks about many times: connecting to the body. Even though I perceived myself to be quite connected with my body (dancer), I've noticed a few incidents lately where I think I am afraid, or angry, then scan my actual physical body and to m...