Transferrance of injuries to our children
Posted: Thu Sep 10, 2015 2:21 pm
(I am copying this post from where I had put it within my intro thread at Mary's suggestion. Thank you Mary for your suggestion and feedback.)
Teresa wrote: Hi Nicky,
With regards to this:
From this thread viewtopic.php?f=21&t=74Nicky wrote: Hi Everyone.
I have banned Stephen from the forums for severely unloving behaviour aimed at Teresa. Please see below:
Now they are on Earth and seperate again I guess that isn't possible.
Couldn't be able to create physical bodies on Earth otherwise they never would have needed to reincarnate!
These are important Truths if we want to improve our understanding of reality, please try not to be wishy washy with your answers.
Teresa, I feel this is a great opportunity for you to feel about what has happened here, if you'd like to of course.
To everybody else, I have now locked this post. If you would like to continue the discussion on this topic, feel free to start up another thread.
I have been reflecting on your suggestion to feel about what happened between me and Stephen and then also with attracting Lance who also was red striked. I asked myself why am I attracting this unloving behaviour from men?
What I felt, what came to me in response to this question, was "Bullying" - this is something I am focussing on recently as it is an issue for the young soul in my care recently (her name is Melanie - faster to write! aside - I haven't found a more elegant way of putting that, does anyone have any suggestions?).
Our counselor has suggested that Melanie's over-sensitivity and over-reactiveness makes her a target for bullies, and I know that I have passed this down to her. The counselor has outlined some things for her to try (there's a book called Bully Blocking which we still haven't started going through - my resistance there as I know there is much in there for me too).
But that doesn't feel like it directly relates to why Stephen and Lance both treated me in that manner. ... More for me to explore here, and I know I am not guiltfree in this too. perhaps I trigger their fear with my covert anger, which I still haven't emotionally come to terms with fully - I have moments of feeling it, but I wouldn't say it is something I have really got my teeth into yet.
More reflection, and more praying, required here, thank you for the opportunity to focus on it.
I will get back to you, thank you.