Is there such a thing as retraumatizing?
Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2016 11:36 am
Hi Nicky and Eloisa,
I wanted to ask your opinion about retraumatisation?
As stated by Maureen in the following thread:
http://forum.divinetruthhub.com/viewtop ... 4&start=10
I felt it was important to get clear on this, as Maureen is making suggestions to people and I don't know if I 100% agree with the ange she is taking.
I have some opposite feelings on this subject, which is why I do not know what to go by.
1. Once I was seeking out to deal with women like my mother, and telling myself that this would be good for me to connect with my hurt.
I never really connected with any of my hurt, as every time I did engage I was in addiction (agreeing with their poor opinion of myself and building them up by keeping me small; or I "taught" them "truth" with a desire to change them or to tell them off with anger that I was still harboring with my mom) and not properly feeling anything.
So Jesus and Mary have asked why I was doing these things, and retraumatizing myself on purpose, or better say I wanted to treat myself bad by communicating with bullies.
Jesus also said that if I am not wanting to feel the pain that is already there why do I want to add more pain, it will not help me but will make things only harder. As my heart is already shut and harbouring lots of pain as I am not letting any of it out.
All of this completely made and makes sense.
However here are very opposing thoughts at the same time in my head:
2. It doesn't make sense to be retraumatized on the same subject if the feelings are already there. The law of attraction will bring similar events as what has happened in my childhood. It may feel like I am being traumatized all over again, but the pain of the same kind is already in my soul.
I feel like the only way i can be retraumatised if I felt through my pains and have forgiven but then have somehow attracted a very bad treatment and was retraumatised again.
What Maureen is suggesting feels more like a desire to control the experience and avoid overwhelmness and I dont know if any of it has anything to do with what I have written above. And my feeling is what if others also misunderstand it all and take it on board without clarifying.
Anyways, I will keep on feeling about this.
Mary has mentioned to me a few weeks ago that Maureen has written something about retraumatizing which didn't feel right, I am glad I remembered about it and looked it up as I have so many questions about it now myself.
anyways, if you wish to share anything I would appreciate greatly.
x
Lena
I wanted to ask your opinion about retraumatisation?
As stated by Maureen in the following thread:
http://forum.divinetruthhub.com/viewtop ... 4&start=10
I felt it was important to get clear on this, as Maureen is making suggestions to people and I don't know if I 100% agree with the ange she is taking.
I have some opposite feelings on this subject, which is why I do not know what to go by.
1. Once I was seeking out to deal with women like my mother, and telling myself that this would be good for me to connect with my hurt.
I never really connected with any of my hurt, as every time I did engage I was in addiction (agreeing with their poor opinion of myself and building them up by keeping me small; or I "taught" them "truth" with a desire to change them or to tell them off with anger that I was still harboring with my mom) and not properly feeling anything.
So Jesus and Mary have asked why I was doing these things, and retraumatizing myself on purpose, or better say I wanted to treat myself bad by communicating with bullies.
Jesus also said that if I am not wanting to feel the pain that is already there why do I want to add more pain, it will not help me but will make things only harder. As my heart is already shut and harbouring lots of pain as I am not letting any of it out.
All of this completely made and makes sense.
However here are very opposing thoughts at the same time in my head:
2. It doesn't make sense to be retraumatized on the same subject if the feelings are already there. The law of attraction will bring similar events as what has happened in my childhood. It may feel like I am being traumatized all over again, but the pain of the same kind is already in my soul.
I feel like the only way i can be retraumatised if I felt through my pains and have forgiven but then have somehow attracted a very bad treatment and was retraumatised again.
What Maureen is suggesting feels more like a desire to control the experience and avoid overwhelmness and I dont know if any of it has anything to do with what I have written above. And my feeling is what if others also misunderstand it all and take it on board without clarifying.
Anyways, I will keep on feeling about this.
Mary has mentioned to me a few weeks ago that Maureen has written something about retraumatizing which didn't feel right, I am glad I remembered about it and looked it up as I have so many questions about it now myself.
anyways, if you wish to share anything I would appreciate greatly.
x
Lena