I am issuing Sandra T with a warning for her post in this thread.
ANDthere could be an issue with placing a demand upon them to do something about it, to manipulate them like I have done towards Phoebe, in order to avoid taking responsibility for my sins towards them. But I fail to see Phoebe's desire to harm Lena in this interaction
My question to Sandra is...why have you created a post expressing your disagreement with the strike issued to Phoebe without firstly attempting to feel through your own stuff? Because as you have stated, it seems you have a similar issue. There is very little true humility/sincerity displayed in your post, as the majority of it is spent justifying your sinful actions (in the way Lena pointed out). A sincere person would simply state that they have a similar issue and ask about what principles of love are involved in helping them understand things further rather than voicing their disagreement of the strike initially when they are yet to understand what is going on.but I felt to engage here because I disagree with Phoebe being attacking of Lena, and want to know why I disagree with your evaluation of Phoebe's message to Lena? I also realise that I hate being told truth about myself, so am I just in complete rebellion here, not wanting to know the truth and thus disagreeing?
In the second quote above, Sandra is expressing her disagreement with the feedback/strike and then straight after stating that she hates being confronted with truth which is quite a feigned statement to make. In writing this Sandra, I feel you have answered your own question.
I would like to add that I didn't feel as though much of what Phoebe said was "off" initially but I did not disagree with Eloisa's strike without first seeking to understand the principles involved, which is quite different to how Sandra has responded here.